Wisdom sayings (c)

 Wisdom sayings (c)
121. Not much ado about nothing
some people care about, what some people want to care about. Everything is concerned about the so-called people are always talking about major issues, everything is always seriously, everything to be controversial, which makes everything inscrutable. worry about the little things really worth bothering. Only a fool yung talent is always on the small stuff to heart. Gouneng aloof go with the flow, and many look as if things will be the into the end of Qingping; Should too seriously, things did not matter but it will become like cattle weight. decision and can only cut the Gordian knot, or Big Sleep end of trouble. more into disease pathogenesis, are sometimes the result of anti-. detachment is open-minded Guyana is a major life tables.
122. sensitive to the words in the line
sensitive to Xian Xian in line before being made into a disadvantage, and can quickly deep-Fu Zhongwang. and talking to people, speech, and even the road, look, and call upon the complainant, can be seen everywhere from time to time the effectiveness of such a great success. conquered people is a real victory. such authority neither from countryman bounder's desperate, so the show is not prudent from the delay procrastination , it can only come from the people before Gao Jie superb character.
123. posturing more talented non-gentleman
the less pretense. posturing is very wide and spread of a common problem. It is not only involving others, am also tired. posturing uneasy himself has long suffered the pain, owed much to long years of effort to maintain face no different from the set of shackles. posturing result also eclipsed the great genius, because the world that they do not show off the first door is the background to show off Kit Kat prostitution technology, Portland does not have the mind of the talented, and generous nature will always have more fun to watch than the artificial. In the eyes of the world, posturing with their imitation of the genius who did not with the terms and language. you are more skilled, more should be knowing too, wonders of this side were gifted to the United States. You can not escape the outpouring of genuine emotion and pretended not to worldly air Goldsmith. gentleman should be tight-lipped on their own merit.'s fame will be seen as worthless by themselves, others will be another eye treatment. Supreme Ascot in virtue of their lightly who is also Kunshan jade pieces. He abide by their own set agenda for the monument to win the all Testimonials.
124. welcomed by the people
rarely welcomed by the world; if you can be Wise favor, that you're in the know they are Sanshengyouxing. the world of stand-Yun Jian good is often dismissive of the generation. To set channel mouth is not difficult, meant to make their own way too many go down in history. You should work budding talent in the transcendent or superior. personable manner is also effective. into your excellent reputation of others dependent on you, people will say that the work to be you, not you need that job. Some of its add the status of the glory, while others are counting on their status and worth increased sharply. Should the system for your successor, and show you the believers gangsters worthy of his term of office, and that not glory. others does not prove that you are unpopular welcomed by the people.
125. not the fault of others
old heart and mind of other people addicted to the notoriety that you have a bad name. It was nice to absolve itself over others, wash their own charges, or ridicule of others to relieve their guilt over, this is really stupid. These types of breath stink, they are no different from the drain reservoir scale pollutant. obsessed with this game and who was tantamount to digging stinking puddles, the more plane deeper, the more is covered in sludge. To err is human, not inherited from parents are picking up due to the day after tomorrow. unless known, inevitably known your fault. gentleman never talked about not the fault of others, lest themselves into a stinking stain on the streets of record.
126. for the stupid things are not as stupid as the poor try to cover up those stupid square
to hide your feelings, but more important is: hide your error. Men are not err, however different; good cover-wise, but stupid fanfare that they have not committed the fault. The so-called reputation for skillfully taking mostly good, but is due to theft, not from honest behavior. If you can not keep his nose clean, then I advise you to do to be cautious. without fire, even great men have great faults of the tip, just like the sun and the moon eclipse, could not escape the eyes of the public lining. cut Do not clean breast of their own shortcomings to a friend, if possible, do not even bare to their minds. there is an attitude of life also applies to: Learn to forget.
127. Everything is quiet Everything is calm cool chic make intelligent
people in a vibrant, witty, such as beads, so Dazhi unique account of high position. decorate many other virtues will be even more magnificent and beautiful nature, but the elegant grace of the virtues of the gentleman was able to decorate themselves a more dazzling. It even makes abstract ideas have become more enjoyable. elegant demeanor system rather than from the natural endowments of the power derived from the day after tomorrow, it might even catch up all kinds of artistic rules. It were not dwell on the techniques behind alone, or even getting a later start, so that unlikely that many items were swift foot back. leisurely charm of self-confidence and to enhance the human virtues icing on the cake. Should the lack of elegant manners, even if we have lilies and roses, but also spare a body, the appearance of pious conceal Muhouerguan in reality. cool detached demeanor, so illustrious fame, cautious, and even put to shame by the emperor of respect. This is a shortcut to success, but also to bail out the recipe after all.
128.
high moral character and high moral character and temperament is a hero One of the essential elements, because it inspired a great variety of feelings. it makes more interesting to relax the mind, expand their horizons and noble accomplishment, to detract from the style of their wants and hopes. No matter where it are striking. luck sometimes cross the jealousy, tried to deny it, but it then dash to the fore. Even if the harsh environment, it can control the will. forthright, generous and all other outstanding qualities are the source for this.
129. never complained
always complain about the loss of your reputation. This will not lead to mercy and comfort, will inflame passions against impulsive and arrogant, rude, and enable those who listen to our people to follow our complaints The complain. Once revealed to people complain, it seems that others think of us damage and insult becomes excusable. complain about past losses and thus lead to future loss of sewage pollution. They want to get help and comfort, listening to people who are only Fiat, and even contempt. praise for your grace to others in order to win them more grace, this is the better strategy. When you're telling people who do not present what benefit you, you asked who is in the presence of were in line with them, you will get the same tenant reward. a wise man should never shame or lightly humiliated publicity, but simply promote the respect of his people. so, he will have friends and to his enemies reduced by half.
130 . to be hard work, but also know how to judge the performance of
people things, not according to what they actually are, but according to what they seem. not only competent, but also know how to show their expertise, this is doubly capable. Where the invisible things almost not there. When not wearing the cloak of a reasonable time by the full, the truth itself is taken seriously. care are few, and dupes the public. fraud prevalent view of the table breaking down language, rarely There truly are. good appearance is the best of its inherent perfect pass.
131. minded tolerance
soul has its beautiful costumes, brilliant mind that is the kind of people's spiritual chic and bold . not everyone has this mind, because the mind requires a generous tolerance. The first act is even praising opponents were generous, even in action more lenient. When the opportunity to have revenge, this light-minded even more splendid. It does not take advantage of it to avoid this situation, will probably act of revenge into unexpected generosity. control of the road, there is a world that is secret; This is a superb political realm. it never flaunt it success, never pretentious, even if its success come on merit, it also know how to without a trace.
132. think
repeated testing is safe and secure, especially when you are not sure. whether to make concessions , or improve your situation, take the time required, will find new ways to prove and confirm your judgments. If matter of give, clever gifts compared to hasty disposal, will be given a gift higher value. for a long time hope things may not always be treasured Ruo. If the matter involves refused, you may wish a lot of attention to your attitude, your As time goes by, the wishes of the previous heat will slowly cool down, therefore, refused to be easier to accept. If someone asked early, then you later commitment. This is a method of controlling interest of others.
133. Ning and people were drunk, do not I alone am sober and people were drunk
Ning, do not I alone am sober: politicians said. If everyone is drunk, I will contrast with the drunk; if sober alone, it will be treated as insanity. important to follow the crowd. Sometimes, the best knowledge is totally unaware, or pretend to completely do not know. because we have to live together with others, and most people are ignorant element known. If living alone, you may will be honest as God, but it may be brutal, such as animals. But I would like to modify the maxim, and declared: ning and people were awake, do not I alone drunk. Some people just chasing illusory maverick thing. < br> 134. double the storage life of your necessities
double the storage life of your necessities, you will double your life rich. Do not depend on any one thing or confined to any one of the resources, no matter how much they are rare and How excellent. every thing, in particular, interest, grace, fun and the like, should be doubled. moon nature fickle, difficult long-lasting, but more volatility is still fragile human beings who depend on the will of our things. more product storage to prepare for uncertainty. let your happiness and interests of the doubling of resources, this is a great rule to live. Just as our physical nature, the most important and most prominent sibling pairs, we should also be doubling the storage of human things that we rely on.
135.
naysayers who do not sing a different tune, only to win their own tired, others hate. wise man should try to suppress this. everything dissidents have, of course, full of thoughtful However, almost all of those stubborn fool. The conversation will evolve into a kind of words, has nothing to do in person than they were more like their friends acquaintances adversary. When the time of delicious food, the argument The hard bone really hard nut to refute the often disappointed people. They are cold and nasty fool.
136.
grasp the main points of things to grasp crucial issues at hand. Many people saw the wood for the trees, or the wrong the object, even though we talk about endlessly, doing a lot of useless reasoning, but could not grasp the core of things. They circle back and forth, both to themselves and others do a worn out, but did not focus on James edge. mind confusion simply do not know how to clean up the Congress are so clue. they had better give up the affairs of those waste of time and patience, and important issues for those who do not have time and patience to deal with.
137. Wise The negative self-contained portable
wise, that is all its ��. a friend - a man of learning - may represent the Roman and the rest of the universe ��. let yourself become a friend, you will be able to survive yourself. If other people's accomplishments and talents are not taller than you, why you need him? you will rely on your own; the greatest joy there is the same with the highest. people who live alone will not be barbarians, in many ways he is a wise man, is a God in every respect.
�� Kalfin Greek philosopher Stephen McGrath who lost in a fire in his wife, children and all property, he stood up from the rubble, said: br> especially when the sea of your life - people, friends and acquaintances - when the storms set off. people's social life has its ups and downs and stormy, a wise approach is to avoid in a calm bay, themselves to be stormy sea subsided. your contingency measures often make things worse. either Heaven or humanity, everything should go with the flow. a wise doctor to know when to prescribe when not open, and sometimes does not prescribe a more Jiangong Li's. sometimes stand is a good way to calm the storm on earth. If you are temporarily down in the future you will be conquered. to contaminate a river is very easy. but did not clarify the water, but you can not through the hands and feet make it clear, can only be allowed to self-clean. call chaos of the Road, of good at wait anyway.
139. JIAN when people behave when shipped
always some bad days. then everything changes Debu liking. No matter what line you are on, there will always be bad luck. Test your luck a few times, if not better to simply give up. or even human understanding is the same: no one can know everything at all times. clear thinking need good luck, write a good letter too. all are perfect only appeared at a particular time. even beauty is not always keep the Quarter. You did not care in the state, either too cautious or is less than prudent . Any chance of things need to be perfect just performance. Some days, everything has become not liking; the other day, no work and all the best: you find everything easy, ideas flow, clear air of God-round cool, you are your lucky stars. take full advantage of this day, do not waste a moment. However, if something goes wrong hit piece on that whole day without merit, it is very unwise, and vice versa.
140. all things have good taste its essence
people go through life happy. honey bee pollen path searching, the Viper is for hidden objects made the pain of poison. As taste different, some of the essence of beauty, there is ugly pursuit of the bad stuff. All things, all have a wonderful, especially the book, the book is to rely on imagination to explore the benefits of the. Some people are very critical of character, they can in a thousand good things to find a at the defect to be blamed, and expansion of its distortion. They are strong and the wise men of garbage collectors, burdened with heavy flaws and shortcomings: they accuse the deficiency is strong and the wise can not see the genius. They is unfortunate, because they only deal with the bitter, associating only with regret. Some people's taste is pleasant: in a thousand defects they will find fortune in favor of the trace of the perfect.
141. Do not just listen to their
If you can not please others, to please yourself what is the use? complacent harvest only contempt. to their lender, it means money owed to others. loftiness of your self, self is no good results. with what they said was crazy; in front of others to listen to their own, it is crazy stupid add. Some people keep their own posterior, keep asking others: you know? those who cried . You will therefore not be defeated by war, a blush with shame and also retired in the battle. wrong, evil, never a good opponent. opponents the first to get the best of his cunning, and if you defend for the worst, can not help but stupid. stubborn action is more dangerous than tough words, because the risk to do more than that. stubborn person out of vulgarity, ignorance, preferences and give up to refute the truth, prefer to argue and ignore effect. prudent or in anticipation of the reason benefits, or because of their position after the correction is always aligned with the intellect, not with passion as a friend. If your opponent is stupid, he will change direction, change sides, and since the bad incident. you grab the upper hand, you can to unseat him. anyhow abandon his advantage make him stupid, and his stubborn will to harm him lose.
143. Do not play to escape convention and the art of sophistry sophistry
prevalent custom and are detrimental to reputation. Those who threaten our way of dignity are Yulu stupid. sophistry is a fraud, mildly entertaining, it is quite reasonable, and its exciting, novel and startling, but then, when the pretense of disguise is revealed, it will disgrace. It has its own charm of the false, the country could follow in the state of political inclination. can not be revealed by virtue of people known to the world, went against the feelings of the sophistry of the paradox, and let fools fool extremely surprised, but makes a wise man to become proactive. sophistry shows common sense is not complete, and I do not know the reason cautious. It built on false basis of hypocrisy and uncertainty, and self-esteem peril.
144. began to give way to the victory that the scheme could end up
then you have to wish. Even if this is related to heaven and other events, the Christian teacher who is also highly recommended that this divine ideas about this. This cover is very important because you can use it to control other people's will. You can be the first performance of his interests is in fact open the way for their own interests. things should not cart before the horse, panic disorder, especially in matters involving risk. on the mouth said ; to be aware of is. the best strategy is to hide their intentions, does not make them feel that with those relating to the hidden intention of the maxim par, and require the same sophisticated, subtle skills.
145. hide your injured finger, otherwise it will run into a wall
remember not to complain about everywhere complain. malicious slander is always aligned Our pain or weakness. a disheartened, dejected look, others attracted only to tease you. sinister intentions have tended to make you angry, it is circuitous song line, find your pain, and tried every means to hurt your wound. If you are wise, the hint should be ignored on the ill, and the deep troubles from your personal or family concerns, as even the goddess of fate and sometimes it hurts you like to start with, and often You have already raw and straight for the place. that you are ashamed of what or who inspire you, encourage you to something, you have hidden, so that continuity in the former and the latter disappeared.
146 . to penetrate the inside, see the nature of their show
often different things, but ignorance can see only the surface; It is often in the later his in-depth and felt disillusioned. all things are fraud first, followed by so stupid , filling the vulgar, mediocre. the truth is often slowly come too late, and time of a staggering Xing Xu, and finally to. prudent man is grateful to know that Mother Nature gave to the ears at the same time, often leaving one to listen to the truth. bully deceive is superficial and shallow person can also hastened to it shone. figuring out the truth to be retired contemplation, which the wise and prudent who never rush to judge.
147. Do not nobody hard to close
not perfect even some timely advice to do not need. do not listen to the opinions of others who are hopelessly stupid. even the most maverick should also pay attention to good advice. Even if the supremacy of the king are happy to take people long. Some people difficult to access, and old habits die hard, so they often slip due to near to help and no one dared to fall. Even the most rigid and stubborn person should also be open doorway of friendship, so that kind of assistance comes in. We all need Friends of a net, he can freely barked at us and give us advice. We trust him, respect his loyalty and prudence, so give him the authority. We will never respect and prestige of the excessive use in people, however, In our hearts, we need to know who can have been heart-mirror, if we value the mirror, we will therefore against fraud.
148.
articulate the art of conversation is a measure of human the true measure of character. human activities do not need more than talk so careful, because there is no more common. but we are winning or losing depends on the success or failure. epistle is thought and written down the conversation, we must be careful as is; and the actual conversation is more to be careful, because like it or not soon be re-tested. experts in a move when its tongue, to grasp the ideological context. sages said: . too deep, and always showing people's insights. to be successful in talking to, need to adjust their intellectual temperament and the other in order to reach a tacit understanding of the rhetorical statements of others not too picky, or suspect you have a grammar pedant, or, more times this was seen as a sentence inspectors. This will lead to enmity to avoid, and you have no way to talk with people. In addition, the words carefully is more important than the surging eloquence.
149. put the blame on others
let others take the blame, you can avoid malicious slander, it is wise to control those of others. Let someone else take the blame and the failure of the attack rumor not because of your weakness Well: Although malicious people think so. In fact, your dodge is the superior attitude of life for. not all things are satisfactory, they can not all people are never satisfied. So, to bar looking for a scapegoat the man's ambition to make him a target of public criticism.
150. Sales only within well-
quality is not enough, because well not all people can identify what Jane or the pursuit of intrinsic value. people tend to herd: they go somewhere just because someone has to be there to see. that the value of a thing requires great skill: to praise, as this can cause people desire it; and sometimes also the highest reputation of (but remember to avoid the pretense contrived.) Another trick is to claim that only sell goods to the experts, because everyone believed that they are expert in, and if not, he was willing himself. Do not praise the simple goods trivial, this will only make it look easy to get vulgar. everyone to pursue different, unique and elegant taste not only can move people in, it can attract the person of extraordinary intellect.
151. for long-term solution < br> Today, for Tomorrow plan, and even more in the future plans. wisest vision is prepared. any warning prior experience, and not liable to crack down on bad luck; those who prepare in advance, they will not put on the spot. Do not wait until the difficulties faced occasion only use reason, and to use reason to predict the difficulties yet to come. when a problem you need to re-thought. pillow is a non-tongue witch, instead of something can not sleep because my mind, it is better to sleep a practical matter resolved. Some people think the line and then: This is an excuse for failure, rather than a successful outcome. still have some personnel are not thinking before the post. human life is to continuously thinking about the objectives to be achieved. pre-vision, failing to deliberate further is not the rain silk tassel of long-term solution was.
152. not with that of people of your talent eclipsed
whether this is because they are right way, or because of their humble incompetence. The more perfect the more affected people people respect. If other people are always ahead, and you just follow suit, so, even if you win the respect, this respect is nothing but leftovers leftover juice. The moon hung alone can fashion stars heaven Zhenghui, The sun came out, it will no longer lose their illustrious glory, or even simply disappear. So do not make you close to eclipsed the people, but to be against the background of those people with your charisma. Fabra Marshall of clever poem So homely and unkempt in her maid of beauty which seems extraordinary, brilliant, is also for this reason. Do not bother, do not disparage themselves and inviting others to glory. young friends to be more clever Results Jun, an adult is As with the human as partners.
153. not to fill the space left by the giant
not to fill the space left giant, otherwise not, you need to determine that they have more talent to undertake this important task. only and the former equal shares, to be double the previous talent. to get people to appreciate even in the later ones you would need a lot of thought; and in order not to annihilation even as the need for previous glory good ideas merit. fill a large section of blank is extremely difficult, because people often use the old days. only with the previous comparable is not enough, because the pioneer scene have been extremely well-placed. If should dispel the aura of their predecessors, must have extraordinary talent.
154. Do not believe in, do not light by
will not have a mature sense of credulity. lie is common, then let gullible become rare thing. hasty to judge people often fall into distress, and thus brought to its knees. but also not publicly questioned the honesty of others. If you are as a person as a liar, or claims that he cheated, then you have added to his sufferings a little insulted. There are more risks to do so: do not trust other people would introduce suspicion your honesty. liar suffering from a double torment: he not only can not believe others do not believe for others. careful listener will not rush to judge. As one writer �� advised us: even should not hurry love into. words people can lie, lie can act, then a deception is even more harmful.
�� that Cicero, the famous Roman orator
155. to be good at both to control your passions
when, thinking and reflection as much as possible should anticipate sudden passion, which may easily be done in carefully. upset when the first thing to do is to recognize this. first, to control his emotions, Determined not to make it worse. With this wise precaution, can quickly terminate the anger. To understand the anger of the law system, and stop in time when the only: the most difficult to stop when running; rage to keep a clear head too difficult. too excited, no matter the degree, will affect the mind. Once angry with this alert, do not make you out of control due to anger, nor will you harm a good discrimination. careful to control emotions will be able to control it very well. You will be the first horse a reasonable person, may also be the last one ��.
�� Spanish proverb: to deal with them
choose your friends carefully to go through inspection, to pass the test of fate, whether or understanding of their willpower should be tested in advance to see if trusted. This is the key to success in life, but this is the world less trouble. Although nosy can bring friendship, but most of the friendship is purely a opportunity. people judge you according to your friend's man: the wise never associating with fools. Le associating with someone does not mean that he is has been known. Sometimes we have no confidence in a person's talent, but still spoke highly of his sense of humor. Some of friendship not pure, but can bring happiness; some friendship and sincere, its rich content, and to nurture success. a friend insight is much more valuable than people's wishes. So friends to carefully selected, not arbitrarily make. wise friend will disperse the gloom, and stupid friends will gather with grief. In addition, if want to Auld Lang Syne, do not always want your friends to grabbing power and money.
157. Do not know the wrong person being cheated
worst than this. the quality of the goods by deception, by cheating as the price for the goods. This matter needs careful to see the truth behind the most. Debate goods and know people are different. insight into other qualities, to distinguish its nature is a great art. studying human nature, should be as intensive as reading a book through.
158.
This requires the use of friends skills and common sense. to be near some friends, some must be distant. not very talkative friends may be good at writing. from the past can purification around the defects can not be tolerated. friends should not seek only pleasure, but also emphasizes practical. A friend is equal to all. one of the world's three major characteristics of good things, a combination of friendship: truth, goodness and specificity. good friend of epic proportions, if not even more difficult to find the selection. keep old friends and make new friends more than important. friends when the search can be a long-term friends, such as obtaining the people, the SGX today, into an old friend from his years. best friends are those lasting for years, life experience can be shared with those. no friends in life is a wasteland. friendship, joy doubled, half the pain; it is to deal with a prime recipe for bad luck, it can nourish heart of the wine.
159. know how to put up with stupid people
wise is not patient, because the knowledge reduced their patience. knowledgeable difficult to please people. Russia Pi Titus tells us that the most important criterion of life is to know how to put up with everything. He believes this is half the true meaning of wisdom. requires great patience and tolerance stupid . Sometimes the people we are most suffering is our most dependent on people, which helped us to overcome ourselves. patience can bring immeasurable peace of mind; and peace of mind is the well-being of the world. do not know how to tolerate other people if it to put up with his own words, it should be alone.
160. Cautious
talk with adversaries, to be prudent; talk with other people, to have dignity. if the export easy, but it can never be recovered. talk like a written Wills, less words, less contentious. trivial conversation on the note, the case when a major event that is able to handle it well. secret sacred feeling. loose tongue, it is very easy to defeat.
161. aware of their shortcomings is difficult to cut disposable < br> Even the most perfect people have flaws. defect inseparable Why is it with people? intelligence has its flaws. intelligence extraordinary man, defects up to - or the most eye-catching. is not he not aware of these shortcomings, but because he likes them. This is the confluence of two evil: the defect harbor irrational emotion. They are the perfect person blotches. they make people hate it, but we as a beauty spot has launched its own. This is self defeating a courageous way. people are good at seeing other people's shortcomings. They do not admire your talent, it will only pay attention to your shortcomings, and use it to your other qualifications eclipsed.
162. overcome the envy and malice
of envy and malice did not show any benefit of indifference; performance achievements you can get more generous. No praise sarcastic than you are more than admirable a; without wisdom and morality than the narrow defeat Qijing even more jealous of the. you every success and you are evil people on a torture; your brilliant for every one of your competitors are hard hit. The greatest punishment is success as a poison. was filled with jealous man, every time one of their successful competitors, he will die again. Ruopi jealous people will never succeed, the jealous man is eternal punishment. the one hand, praised the successful winner of the horn brilliant, it also declared the start of envy, suffering pain.
163. Do not let too much compassion to be sympathizers
you into someone that is unfortunate, others may be considered lucky . If it is not because most people are, unfortunately, how can a man say he is lucky that? not lucky to win people's sympathy often; we want to heal the fate of relief useless in the scars left by other people . In the past all the people who hate bogey and suddenly became all the object of sympathy. His hatred of the decline of people into a pity. people have to be very smart to figure out the secret. There are some special sympathy for the unfortunate people. Once was bad luck, they will gather around him; one but this one After a storm, they are shunned. Sometimes this can be called a noble heart, but in fact it is not wise practice.
164. release exploratory look at one thing is the wind
will be accepted or rejected, especially if you recognized for its success or skeptical, just take the tentative release of wind, so you can guarantee some things you can have good results and allows you to decide whether to continue carrying it, or early withdrawal. by probing other people's ideas, cautious people can find their own position. upon request, demand or making decisions already foreseen, it is wise.
165. fight proper way
wise man possibly involved in war, but not involved in the dirty war. stay true to yourself, do not ...